With all of this change that’s come about in the past couple of years, I figured I should revisit the “plan” since my retirement and savings got halved. I can’t say there are many complaints, considering how much we’d saved, so my half is a nice chunk of change. I guess my biggest complaint is finding out that the ex wanted to separate 10 months after we moved, and I quit my job and turned down a promotion to support her career. 10 months… 10 months… That seems like a time period where those feelings didn’t just pop up during those 10 months, but that’s more of a discussion for my therapist, which reminds me that I need to find a new one. To be fair, the ex did say, lets get a therapist and then if it doesn’t change, we should separate by the end of the year, which was 4 months away… So at least there was that concession, lol.
Since then, I’ve used my money to buy 5 acres, and a house. I was looking at building a house on that 5 acres until I heard from my ex that she could be moving to town, maybe in 10 years, maybe after she gets tenure, maybe sooner. Update, she moves to town in 3 weeks, so I’m glad I’m not in the middle of building a property 10 miles outside of town. I’m in the middle of getting a driveway built on the property and ultimately want to build an escape cabin out there. Nothing crazy, just a little log cabin or shipping container type home that I can go spend weekends in, and take the kids out to and enjoy time in the woods.
All of this to say, that things have changed significantly, so I wanted to see how well my retirement was looking. I like using cfiresim, for simulating retirement scenarios. When I researched some random retirement calculators back in 2017, Market Watch actually had a pretty decent one as well. I revisited cfiresim and this is what I came up with.
Last year was one for the record books in so many ways. And literally, one for the record books in so many ways that none of us want to remember. For me, it was the first time since I was 15 that I was unemployed. Like for real unemployed, not quitting my job in hopes of a better life with the family, type of unemployed. I had lots of ideas for what to do to move forward with income, I put together 5 different business plans, and had a lot of things that sounded good end up not looking so great when you look at the numbers. Yikes! I’ve seen more than a handful of people start an fail at the same restaurant I worked at in KY for almost 5 years. I knew how quickly you could burn thru cash with nothing to show for it. On top of that, the oil industry was already in a downturn. Massive layoffs, companies filing for bankruptcy, a petroleum geologist job was not to be found anywhere and it only got worse as the year went on. Not wanting to burn through all my savings and THEN end up feeling stuck and without money, I decided to get a job. A job at the DEpt of Human Services and friends, let me tell you. It was an experience…
Back when we first started thinking about early retirement, or later on, our Fully Funded Lifestyle Change, we had ideas about what that life would look like in ALL the ways. We expected it would be a happy little family, with ALL the time to hang out together, we would/could have some income from this blog (lol, riiiight), we would/could have income from some yet to be determined adjunct positions, and or find some other income sources that would be fun, since we wouldn’t need the money. If all else fails, we could always “go back to work”. If not in oil and gas, then in teaching perhaps, or who knows, but we’ll let the “future SSC’s” figure that one out, if needed.
Well, the reality was a lot different. In less than 2 years after we initiated our FFLC, we were divorced and all of that planning went out the window. Well, not all of it. I’m positioned really well to be able to follow whatever type of work comes my way, I did get an adjunct position, and I’m working on developing several income streams in the background. Before you ask, No, none of those income streams are from public speaking engagements, or my book “How to Retire Like Me”, lol. With all of that in mind, my Mostly Funded Lifestyle Change (MFLC) has been interesting to say the least. One thing has been pretty certain throughout, is that planning on a return to your former industry is shaky at best.
In my case, I wasn’t ever really planning on getting back into oil and gas full-time. Sure, the money is uh-may-zing, and it’s enjoyable enough work, but it’s not that fulfilling from a personal standpoint. I also never planned/counted on being able to return to my previous salary level, bwahaha, I wish. That bridge crumbled almost immediately after leaving the industry. For perspective, when I left, there had already been a big wave of layoffs from 2014-15 crash and while a lot of those people left the industry for good, many are still out there scrapping for any job openings. I knew the job market would be tight if I ever did want to gain re-entry.
Also, with Covid and the general unpredictable nature of oil markets, the possibility of re-entry is all but gone. Most smaller companies are doing well just to NOT file for bankruptcy, unlike some larger companies that already have or are planning to file, like Whiting, or Chesapeake, as per their announcement this week. My former company is hanging on tooth and nail to not fold or be bought up, after a horribly poor timed and poorly executed acquisition of Anadarko. Remember how people talk about not letting emotions come into play when home shopping, car shopping, or shopping for any other major purchase? The CEO should’ve taken that advice, because the financial structure of that acquisition is the definition of overpaying, just to win the bid. Yay, you won… Long story, but definitely, nothing opening up there anytime soon.
With the kids being here in Oklahoma, I knew I’d be restricted to a smaller market, smaller companies, and less opportunity, even if I did try to jump back in to that industry. Fortunately, I don’t have a lifestyle that needs that outrageous salary, and all the trappings that come with it. What’s my plan moving forward? Well, here are a few of them that I’ve been working on, none of which involve returning to my old industry.
Adjunct Teaching
Yep, I am still teaching about petroleum geology, so that’s sort of kind of on the fringe of that industry, I’m employed/contracted through the school, so not necessarily. At $6k/semester, it’s not even AdjunctFI, lol. That’s been nice, and I’ve applied to some other positions, probably along with the other thousands of unemployed geologists now that the latest wave of layoffs is underway. I have heard nothing yet on any position related to using my degree, and that’s fine with me. I feel okay submitting lots of applications, even knowing that none will probably pan out to anything income producing. It helps me feel better, and that’s how I like to keep personal finance, “personal”. I haven’t seen my contract for the fall yet, and it may fall through, but I at least gave my preference for teaching delivery method (all online, meet at a certain time online, or Saturday teaching… booo Saturday) and am reformatting the course appropriately.
Saturday courses….
Department of Human Services (DHS)
I have an interview with DHS of Central Oklahoma this Thursday, to be a Child Welfare Specialist, i.e. a case worker. Do I have any background in this field? Meh… Not really. I’ve been a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for the last year and a half so I’ve been privy to the inner workings of all of this, more than when I worked oil and gas. But, I also have a BS, an MS, a heartbeat, and a willingness to do the job, so we’ll see how that plays out.
Why work at DHS? Well, CASA won’t be hiring this year, much to my dismay… So, I stepped over to the next best option and applied at DHS. No clue how it will turnout, but you can be sure I’ll be tweeting or writing about it as it does. For me, I’m in a unique position to be able to do a job I want, and not necessarily the first job that says they’ll hire me. That’s awesome, and a great opportunity for me to be able step into the social work space. I’m really excited about it!
Child Advocacy Center
Another income stream I’ve been putting energy towards these days is working on starting a non-profit that would be a place for supervised visits for kids in/out of the foster care system, or just divorced parents that need supervision with their visits. This would also be expanded over time to include more services, but the main service would be providing a comfortable, relaxed space that families can spend having quality family time, and not just visiting at a McDonalds, for instance, or a park, or someplace that might be harder to relax and connect with their kid. Who wouldn’t want to be able to just cuddle and watch a movie, or a tv show, or do arts and crafts, or play out back, or bake in the kitchen? IDK, but that seems like a way better more relaxed atmosphere that feels less like “visiting” and more like bonding time.
I lost my business partner for that plan. I haven’t lost her, but I’ve lost any access to capital from her currently, due to erm, life? It seems no one’s plans are working out as well as they thought, lol. I’m currently stuck at the board of directors stage, writing the charter, and all the paperwork accoutrements that come along with starting a non-profit. Also, I haven’t previously had access to cash, to buy “the perfect property” yet, but that is not the case right now. Woohoo!! Now I’m ready to pull the trigger, which leads me to the next topic.
Me, when I find the “perfect” house
What the hell is going on with real estate markets?! It’s as hot now as it ever was, at least around here. House pricing hasn’t come down, at all. Houses are on the market for 3-12 days before they go to pending and they usually sell for close to their asking price. It’s crazy. Until I find the right property, I’m still just dealing with paperwork and that aspect. When I DO find a property, I can always rent it back to myself, from the non-profit, or if that business doesn’t work out, move into it or put it up for sale and recoup some money from that venture. A bonus would be having more space to put my woodworking equipment and use the property for that as well. Also, another potential rent-back opportunity for garage space. Until that pans out, I’m still reaching out for other board members, as that is my limiting factor at the moment.
Medical Marijuana
I’m stepping into the MM space. It seems tight, and a bit overloaded here, especially with the number of dispensaries and the like, around Norman alone. Statewide, as of last week, we had 137 pages of registered dispensaries, and at 17 listings per page, that’s over 2300 dispensaries. I’d rather deal with plants than people, tbh, and so I’ve been emailing about commercial rental spaces I can use for that operation. I’ve been learning all about Triple Net Leases, buildout for indoor grow ops, and THC extraction methods from flower and that has been an enlightening experience. I’ve been trying to keep that rental as close to home as possible, so my commute to “work” wouldn’t be a hassle, AND I could visit it at odd hours, if I get a “real job”. So far, 3 rejections, with offers WAY more space and overhead than I currently need. I’m not wanting to tie down the first year of operations with massive overhead while it’s a fledgling business. I haven’t signed anything yet, but hopefully very, very soon.
I have a business partner for the manufacturing side, and some potential people to tap for the grow side, but first, I need a space. I’ve all but given up on finding some land east of town that could work for this operation. This is due to the last property I looked at, being the residence of a “crazy old coot”. I mean, wow. Just wow… So, until something out there comes along, I’m into the rental space now.
The main plusses for this income stream, in my opinion, is that at the very least, I could have some cash influx about 3 months after getting my certificates. Because we’ll be sourcing our own product for manufacturing, that greatly increases the profitability margin. Amazingly, the licenses, packaging, and certificates to grow, sell, and make MM products, is WAY, WAY, WAY cheaper and less regulated than starting a nano-brewery. Freaking crazy, in my opinion, but hey, the gov’t does, what the gov’t does… Also, why not learn something new?
What Now?
I don’t know what’s coming next, to be honest. I may get the DHS job, I may not. I may find a house for the advocacy center and go full steam with that and definitely try my hand at the MM space in the meantime. I also started an Etsy shop, Could Have Been a Book where I’m successfully paying for picture listings, lol. Thanks to the support of a lot of you in the Twitter space, I have been getting items sold, and more pics added to the shop. Thank-you to everyone that has been helpful in supporting me in that way. My main goal is to have a nice inventory and supply built up prior to the holiday rush and get a local Facebook page for people within driving distance that don’t want to pay for shipping on the bigger carvings and products. Is that going to solve my money woes? Nope, not at all, lol. However, if it helps stop the leaks, then that’s awesome, and it keeps me focused working on hobbies and away from the computer because holy cow, my activity level has been SO low lately. Even with a “supposed” triathlon in Boulder this fall. Fingers crossed, but I know I won’t setting any PR’s on that course. It will be a great time to catch up with my college buddy, play even more music, and spend some time in CO, even if it’s just Broomfield…
Summary
That’s about it. The most recent catch up on all things, Jay. Not much has changed since last time though. I feel like I need to pivot this whole blog, whatever the hell it is now, out of the PF space and into, I have no clue where it would go.
I don’t write about PF stuff anymore. I’ve been blogging almost 6 years, I left an industry, was unemployed for almost 1 solid yr, and adjunct only for almost 1.5 years now and I STILL haven’t written a book, made any positive net income from the blog, or have actively been trying to monetize this platform. Too much work, not enough “give a crap” from my side. Plus, what would my book be about, “How to retire like me!”, I see way too many of those as it is, and don’t have anything new to add to waves arms around that whole space. Who knows, but you can be sure you’ll read about it here, or somewhere, when that pivot happens. Until then, stay safe, be kind, and if you need any support, join our PF Group over at discord.
For anyone that’s ever done any mountaineering, or just plain old hiking in the mountains you’ve experienced false peaks. For those not aware of the term, it’s essentially when you see “the top”, push to “the top”, only to get to “the top”, and then you see the actual peak even higher than where you currently are. It can be defeating, if you’re the kind of person to let mountains push you around, lol. I kid, I kid. But recently I’ve found out I’ve been dealing with nothing but false peaks, and I’m just about ready to pack up and hit the beach. Seriously…
Most of my false peaks seem to be around work, and income. I had been applying to jobs back in January, February, and I mostly stopped around March. In all, I applied to 42 jobs, and heard exactly nothing back from any of them, lol. Why did I stop? Lots of reasons, but these are the main ones.
First, there were no new jobs appearing, just the same handful of positions I’d already applied to.
Second, this whole buzz about some virus coming out of Wuhan seemed to rattle people.
Third, I had been talking with My CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) supervisor in January and she hooked me up with her daughter for a potential position with her son-in-law’s excavation company. Anyway, that hasn’t panned out yet, lol, but no worries, I’m optimistic.
Fourth, she mentioned that CASA would need a new supervisor position sometime around the 1st quarter and I’d be her preference for that position, so I was mostly just waiting for that, but applying other places, in the meantime.
Fifth, and final reason was that she (same CASA supervisor) also mentioned that she would love to help fund, start, work at, the child advocacy center I had approached her about starting.
Those are a myriad of reasons and seem to be scattered, but each one was a false peak and here’s why.
Whew, it felt like we just started this year and it’s finally, holy shit! It’s still, April!?!? Whoa… I don’t know if the rest of you feel that time has lost all sense of relevance and has been distorted recently. I know I have. It reminds me of the scene in the Jerk where Steve Martin’s character is talking about time distortion…
Navin Johnson: (Speaking to Marie in bed while she sleeps) I know we’ve only known each other four weeks and three days, but to me it seems like nine weeks and five days. The first day seemed like a week and the second day seemed like five days. And the third day seemed like a week again and the fourth day seemed like eight days. And the fifth day, you went to see your mother and that just seemed like a day, and then you came back and later on the sixth day, in the evening, when we saw each other, that started seeming like two days, so in the evening it seemed like two days spilling over into the next day and that started seeming like four days, so at the end of the sixth day on into the seventh day, it seemed like a total of five days. And the sixth day seemed like a week and a half. I have it written down but can show it to you tomorrow if you want to see it.
Yep, it’s been like that around here. Kind of crazy if you think about it, how time gets distorted.
For me, it’s been a slap in the face of what “traditional retirement” would look like. I didn’t realize how much time I spent at the kids school, and the CASA office until they shut down. And holy hell, did I turn into the old guy just puttering around the house, talking to his little dog about the government, politics, and the weather… Yikes! Seriously, I turned “retired” really quickly! The first week or so was super productive. Then I went into #sluglife mode for a week and a half. Mostly, I was dealing with mild depression and apathy for life, and went with it. That burnt me out on tv, lol. Then I decided I needed to be more productive. Between the divorce, trying to start a new business, and all the projects I had from before, I have a lot to do.
It doesn’t seem like a year since I left my job, but we’re coming up on 13 months away from full time work! Whoa! That’s the longest I’ve gone “un-employed” since I started working at age 15. I made it a whole 54 weeks before getting any W2 type work. That gig is “guest teaching” formerly known as substitute teaching or “subbing”. With the stellar pay of $60/day it’s still volunteering in my book, lol. What have I done in the past year? A crap ton of volunteering, that’s what. I’ve also applied to 2 different jobs that looked fun, I got accepted for one of them, and I’ve come to find out that I like carving things with a chainsaw. Who would’ve thought? I also had a really valuable lesson taught to me about volunteering, by a 5th grade classroom I subbed for. What did they teach me and how did it cause me to re-evaluate everything I’m putting my energy towards? Well, that’s a pretty funny story.
What a year 2018 was for the SSC household. There was a LOT going on with the kids, the dogs, our house, and most importantly both of our jobs. At the beginning of the year we were designing a house to be built on our property at Canyon Lake and expecting to be in Houston for another 2 years. By the end of the year I wasn’t working and we were celebrating Christmas in our “new” house in Oklahoma. Wow! Just wow… Even for us, things seemed to come so unexpectedly the only thing that we knew to count on was that our plans would constantly be changing. Ultimately, it was the year we kicked off our dream of the Fully Funded Lifestyle Change (FFLC)!! There was a lot more detail than just that, so let’s get into the 2018 recap.
Moving Time
Early in 2018, Mrs. SSC landed a really sweet gig working at a well-respected University with a strong and established petroleum program. This forced us to move to Oklahoma and it wasn’t even on our radar for places to live. We found a great place out in the country with 2 untamed acres. On the plus side, we could shape it to be as wild or as manicured as we want because literally nothing had been done to the woods except let them grow wild.
Goodbye Green Wall of Doom!
The downside is that there is a TON of downed timber across that 2 acres, a lot of underbrush, and it isn’t anywhere I’d want the kids or myself wandering through in the summertime. I’ve been putting a big dent in clearing that brush, and I’ve cut down about 20+ trees already. I have marked so many more trees with flagging tape that I ran out of 200’ of tape. Yipe!
Selling Property Sucks
Our Houston house went on the market in mid-March and we figured it would be slow until summertime, but expected to be able to sell it over the summer. It went 90 days without a showing, in part I believe to the “okay but not great” photos that were taken. Pro-tip – interview multiple realtors prior to picking one. Ours was Mrs. SSC’s trainer and was convenient, but I feel like we could’ve found a better realtor and saved ourselves a LOT of $$ and anxiety. Mid-summer we got an offer and man were those buyers nit-picky. They argued over every single dime wanting us to put up more and more money. After a month of negotiations on post-inspection fixes, we found out these jack-wads weren’t even approved for a loan! How does that happen!? Well, they barely squeaked by for a pre-approval with a high 500’s credit score. Fast-forward 5 months and who has been missing car payments and racking up MORE debt? Those guys. Needless to say, their credit score had dropped to low 500’s and they couldn’t get approved for the loan. Thanks for keeping our house off the market the last month and a half of summer and being jackasses about EVERY single item… Ugh…
Buyer #2
The next buyers wanted our property, but didn’t want to make an offer until their house sold. However, they wanted us to take it off the market and hold it for them. Can you hear me laughing? That was rejected, and the house stayed on the market. Another buyer put in an offer and had the inspection done, then pulled their offer 3 days later. Their main concern was having to replace the water pipes due to the amount of rust coming out of them. We were puzzled and then remembered we’d replaced the main shutoff and the plumber told us to run the water to flush any rust/sediment/etc… that had gotten knocked loose and that it may look dirty until it gets flushed. We asked our realtor to do that and he had done it, according to him. Those pictures of the bathtub with rusty looking water said otherwise… Ugh…
Third Time’s a Charm
FINALLY, we got another interested couple, they made an offer, were easy to negotiate a price with, and we were under contract. We waited for the inspection and heard nothing. Literally nothing. We contacted our realtor and he said that they’d gotten the inspection and didn’t have any follow-up requests for us to fix. Yay!! While we technically closed in 2019, we did finally close on that house and that 2018 contract went thru. Yippee!
Leaving My Job
Me leaving work was a little tricky due to the fact that I had to prep the house for sale, keep it under wraps, AND spend time driving up to Oklahoma for house hunting, home inspection, and closing. It was easy enough to tell work that I’m “taking time off” but everyone was convinced I was interviewing at other companies. That was just fine with me, because what do I care what they think? I’m leaving in 3 months.
One Friday, I was at my desk and get a call from my boss to come to our bosses office. I get nervous and then think, wait, why am I nervous? I didn’t do anything wrong. Then I got excited thinking I might be getting laid off and could get a severance package. Buoyed by that prospect I went in, sat down and was told I was being promoted to my bosses position but for our Texas-Delaware Assets. Hooray… Ultimately, I declined that offer, and you can read more about it here. Since my upper managers now knew I was leaving in August, I wasn’t getting any more additional work or put on other special teams. Double yay!!
When the time got nearer for me to leave my boss proposed a 3 month remote work assignment to help with reserves. It got approved and ultimately we had 3 more months of pay, health insurance, and a little extra $$ we hadn’t counted on to help with the “new” house projects. It turned out to be a mixed bag that you can read more details about here, but ultimately it worked out well for everyone.
Money Pit
The new house is the last big topic of 2018. When we moved in we knew it needed some cleaning and maintenance as it looked like it hadn’t been maintained in the 16 years it has been around. We got the ducts cleaned, I vacuumed the walls, and I dusted and cleaned every other surface and Mrs. SSC was still having troubles with allergies and breathing. The previous owners had a cat, so I suggested that we replace the carpet sooner than later. We did that and her breathing got immediately better. Hooray!!
The house temp wouldn’t get cooler than 83/84 F on days when the outside temp was over 93. We had an AC inspection and it was working correctly and pumping out cool air, but that wasn’t the issue. The issue was that it was a 3 ton unit and this house needed a larger unit than that to be effective… I shopped around 4 different contractors and found a great deal on a higher efficiency unit than we previously had, and after it was installed problem solved.
I also noticed that the upstairs bonus room was a heat/cool sink for the house. Everywhere else appeared to have adequate depth blown-in insulation but the walls for this rom were only 4” thick. I wanted to get some more insulation and add it to them along with some other spots I’d noticed that had thin blown in insulation (4” or less). On Black Friday, Lowe’s had 30% off their insulation. Score!! I bought 24 batts (11 pieces in each batt) of R-30 insulation for ~$1k discounted, installed it myself, and have seen some great results. Plus, now I can keep the heat off in the bonus room. On the coldest nights it gets down to 58 but mostly stays between 60-64 without any heat on. Double Score!!
Summary
That’s the very long recap of our year. I’m sure I may have missed some things, but those were the biggest ones for us. So far, we’re loving the town, country living, the kids school, and our neighbors. While this state wasn’t even in the running for places to consider living in, we are really liking it. There’s more topography than we expected, especially in our home area. The people are super friendly and it feels like it has a great sense of community about it. I can’t wait to see what’s in store for 2019! Be on the lookout for a “new” home spending post. There’s way too much to put into this one, and it is ridiculous…
Hope your 2018 went as great for you as it did for us.
A LOT has changed since my last post. First of all, I’m unemployed for the first time since I was 16 yrs old! Woohoo! Stay At Home Dad (SAHD) Lifestyle Change is now officially in full swing. Yeah!! As for the rest of what’s been going on, my last post was in early September, so there’s a lot to unpack and sort through since then.
I left this as my out of office reply…
My biggest success since we last left was getting my mental health squared away better than it has been in decades. Literally, decades. Here’s a very brief back story. When I was in 6th grade one of my good friends was tragically killed when he hit a powerline while climbing a tree. I felt responsible and went into a fairly heavy depression. It lasted the better part of a year before my parents sought help. The child psychologist recommended me to in-patient treatment if I “didn’t snap out of it soon”. After overhearing that, I started putting on the happy face and pretending everything was fine. I’ve been doing that ever since and have just been going around being whomever I’m supposed to be that day. While I’ve gotten really good at it, I’ve never gotten rid of that inner voice of shame, guilt, negativity, depression, etc… It’s just followed me around like a little devil on my shoulder trying to convince me of all sorts of bananas shit and not let me enjoy my successes. Hell, it hasn’t let me “just be” in over 29 years.
Until these past few months that is. I got proactive and started going to a depression group here in OK, pretty much since we’ve been here. I also went to see a psychiatrist to figure out what’s wrong, because clearly, I’m not fixing it on my own. With the help of my shrink and my group, I’ve had no negative self talk, depressive voice, or any of that the last few months. It’s been freaking amazing!! Why the hell I waited so long to do this, I have no idea. If any of you are struggling with depression or any mental health issue and feel like you’re stuck and can’t figure it out on your own, take that next step. I’d done therapy (talking) for 4 years in LA and it helped with a lot, but not that. If you’re struggling, try kicking it up a notch and seek different help, or any help. It has made a HUGE difference in my life. HUGE.
So Much Free Time?
My remote contract ended on the 2nd, and I was officially “free” from work. To be fair, I hadn’t done any “work” in the last month and a half. I’d made 2 trips to Houston which were all but worthless from a business standpoint. I literally flew to town to sit in a conference room and watch my team present for 30 min and I didn’t say anything, offer anything, nothing.
A lot of this the last month of “work”…
Then 3 weeks later, I flew back for an all day meeting to watch my team present 1 geology slide in a 9 slide, 10 minute long presentation. Yep. Living the dream, baby!
With all that free time, what have I been doing? Well, trying to get a volunteer gig for most of it. The Watch DOGS (Dads of Great Students) group at my kids school took applications on family night, the day before school started. Then wouldn’t submit those applications until after their WatchDOGS BBQ late September, and I still haven’t heard anything other than – here’s a link to where you can buy shirts when you’re approved. Maybe it’ll happen before Christmas, who knows… I also submitted an application at CASA and they are meeting with me Nov 16, so we’ll see how that goes.
Amazingly, even with no actual commitments, it’s super easy to see my free time frittered away every day and think, “Holy crap?! It’s 3:20 pm already?!” I’ve done very little music practicing, even less exercise, and not much outdoor anything to be honest. I’ve just been enjoying the fall and getting to wear long sleeve t-shirts and jeans again. Woohoo!! Fall!!!
Set a Schedule?
Beyond that, I’ve been trying to get on a more productive schedule. Mrs. SSC came up with a nice schedule for weekly and monthly cleaning, and I need to get on to better meal planning and having dinner ready at nights. I haven’t adapted to that part of the SAHD lifestyle yet. I’m getting there, but it’s a lot. I did go into gmail and set up some blocked-out times mostly for exercise, playing music, and cleaning. I need to add in writing as I feel like there is loads of blog fodder around me most days/weeks and I just haven’t given a f$*& lately, to be honest. Hell, I didn’t even get out a “Here’s how Fincon 18 Went Down!!” post.
That’s okay, because I’m not being critical of what I didn’t do, I’m just being happy that I’m here now, writing. Yeah, writing! And exercising, and getting into doing what I need to do, not what I should have been doing. You can’t change that anyway, so why beat yourself up over it?
Finally, I spent some of that time revamping the blog! Yeah, a new layout, fresh new look, and hopefully cleaner interface for all of you that are gracious enough to stop by and peruse the blog posts. Thanks for your support and reading. I’m working on being more consistent with writing once again and like I said, there is loads of blog fodder around here.
Fincon 18 Quick-Take
Fincon 18 was pretty awesome! Good setting, if you knew how to play Frogger, great weather for running (if you were used to the Gulf Coast weather), and a great group of attendees this year. I loved getting the soul recharge of seeing old friends that you only run into online. Just as awesome is the new friends you get to make and get to know. There were so many of those it was almost like this was my first Fincon all over again. I was deep in depression that whole week, and it took a lot to get out of my room, but once I did, man, it was an amazing 12 hrs+ of talking each day. The parties were good, but the people are what made it epic. Thanks to everyone that made it a great Fincon for me and I hoped I added as much to your experience as all of you did to mine.
Faces clipped to protect the “innocent”
Summary
Look for more posts soon on finding my ikigai, adapting to our new budget, still cleaning up the yard (now that it’s cooler, that’s started up again), DIY vs contractors, me finding paid work (whaaaa??!!!) and more. Just kidding, I’m not looking for paid work, just seeing if you’re paying attention. Anything big going on in your life lately? New changes ahead or just happened? Let me know!
Man was Friday an exciting, stressful, adrenaline fueled sort of day. It definitely added another notch in the career belt for “crazy things that happen at work.” If you didn’t catch what happened on Twitter this past week, here’s the short version of what happened.
I just got promoted to Subsurface Team Lead… I’m still planning on leaving in 3 months… Hooray and oh shit… That sure complicates things pic.twitter.com/lhgaW5Q6Av
If you’ve been following the blog for a little while, you’ll know that my GM “Bill” put me on a development track to get recommended for “the next available” team lead spot. While some positions came and went without me being promoted to them, true to his word, Bill did recommend me for a new team lead position. On Friday he announced to me and my current boss that I would be leaving his team because I was being promoted to the Subsurface Characterization Team Lead for Texas Delaware Basin. Essentially, I got promoted to my boss’s position just a different part of the basin. What neither of them knew was that I wouldn’t be an employee here after August 2nd. Whoops… That led to some soul searching as to what would I do, and the “not as awkward as you would think” conversations I had when I ultimately declined the promotion.
Today, I’m featuring our podcast interview with Chain of Wealth. If you haven’t heard of them, you should check out their site. It is run by Denis and Katie and they set it up to document Katie’s debt payoff story while inspiring other folks to tackle their own PF issues. They blog about Katie’s debt payoff story and other personal finance related topics and they put out podcast interviews with other inspiring people on Mondays and Thursdays. Currently, their podcast has 58 episodes and includes names like Erin from Broke Millenial, Tanja from Our Next Life, Billy from Wealth Well Done, and Matt Lane from Optimize Your Life just to name a few.
One Friday, I was at my desk and get a call from my boss to come to our bosses office. I get nervous and then think, wait, why am I nervous? I didn’t do anything wrong. Then I got excited thinking I might be getting laid off and could get a severance package. Buoyed by that prospect I went in, sat down and was told I was being promoted to my bosses position but for our Texas-Delaware Assets. Hooray… Ultimately, I declined that offer, and you can 
