Budgeting

May 2015 Update

May, May, May…. When we were going through this month and getting the numbers together for an update, I was thinking it was going to be a blown month for budgeting, savings, the whole sha-bang, but actually it didn’t turn out too bad. Spoiler alert – next month will be rough as I need new tires, we had some home repairs done, and are on the verge of adopting a greyhound, but as slow as they’re going, it could get kicked into July… Overall though, over the 1st 5 months of the year, we’re on track at ~$50k for our yearly spend FIRE estimator number. It’s been bouncing around $50-$52k these past months, but it looks like Mrs. SSC nailed it by estimating $56k/year. Fingers crossed it stays that way.

May highlights for the SSC family: We were on vacation for a week. That was excellent, and for the first time since we had kids, I can say I came back from this vacation NOT feeling like I needed a vacation! Awesome!! But, the vacation did show up in other places, mainly more gas spend, more toll spend, groceries stayed on track, as we just cooked in our condo, and enjoyed being somewhere different. Daycare was down because we got to not pay for the week of vacation, Woohoo! A cool perk of our daycare is that after a year of being enrolled, you get a free week, essentially, for when you go on vacation. It’s better than paying for the week when they’re not there, and always better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick. I’ll take it!

Jan-15 Feb-15 Mar-15 Apr-15 May-15
mortgage -1911.99 -1911.99 -1911.99 -1911.99 -1911.99
house utilities -260.85 -328.43 -253.84 -249.01 -234.14
phone, tv, internet -237.81 -256.95 -239.07 -239.39 -246.79
daycare -1805.5 -1790 -2237.05 -1790 -1542.5
car note and ins -323.45 -323.45 -323.45 -1061.42 -323.45
health 0 0 -7.9 0 0
groceries -504.59 -630.82 -784 -690 -608.09
misc shopping -54 -291.73 -144.88 -598.27 -323.21
gas-toll -225.79 -516.1 -455 -233 -402.82
gifts/entertainment -80 0 0 -20 -45
pets -192.72 -341.8 0 -51.5 -216.2
maids -257.64 -257.64 -257.64 -346.26 -128.82
cash -40 -40 0 0 0
gym -87.12 -87.12 -87.12 -87.12 -87.12
travel 0 -1361.8 0 0 -866.83
Total -5981 -8138 -6702 -7278 -6937

Beyond the vacation spending and it affecting the travel related items, everything else seemed to be fairly stable. Pet cost was up due to a yearly exam for Quinn. Maids were less, as we cancelled for their scheduled day (Memorial Day), so we got to relax all day and save some coin! It all seemed to balance out looking at the monthly spend comparison to the previous 4 months though, so way to go SSC family!

Looking at these numbers and our first quarter spend, 2 things jump out that I’m impressed by, and they lead to a third thing that makes me happy. First, I’m impressed we are on track with our savings goal for the year. I thought Mrs. SSC was loopy when she suggested it, I believe it was $150k, but we’re on track to get there, and are at 52% savings rate currently. That’s amazing to me! Second, is that we’re pretty spot on with our yearly spend estimate for our FIRE number. That led to back calculating how much we would need to keep this spend up until we can access our 401k’s and getting our ER number, and subsequent date. Just a reminder, that if you’re adding up our monthly totals and thinking those add up to closer to $84k/year, not $50k – $52k, you’re right. It does. BUT, we won’t have the mortgage, or daycare which are a HUGE portion of our cost. Just look at that pie chart. Yikes! Like I said before, way to go Mrs. SSC! We got our $56k number through a quick look. Having tracked things in detail over the last 7-8 months, it is reassuring that we are pretty dang close, which implies our ER number and date are still valid. Whew!!

I can't wait to be done with daycare and a mortgage!
I can’t wait to be done with daycare and a mortgage!

The thing that makes me happy. That is this: I don’t feel like I’m having to watch every penny, and that our lifestyle is still really comfortable. I fought about the number being so low in the beginning, because I didn’t want to feel strapped, or broke, or like we have to be money nazi’s, and it isn’t like that at all. So that makes me really happy, because it makes me feel like this is a pretty sustainable budget and lifestyle for our family.

That’s our May update, hopefully yours is similar with your savings up, spending stable, and investments growing!

Dream vacation: What’s the rush?

Recently, I came across an article about “Fly-in, Fly-out” fishing trips in Canada. These are mainly to go after pike, walleye, and grayling, and all the pictures show people holding big, toothy, 40” long fish. A trip like that seems like it would be a blast, so I began to investigate the options. I invited a couple of friends along thinking it could be a good “guy trip”, you know, travel, fishing, some camping or relaxing in a lodge each night, and general shenanigans that end up with some great stories. The guys and I have done other charter fishing trips in the past, so I figured they’d be on board. However, the price can get a little ridiculous, Heck, it can be a LOT ridiculous, so I sold it to them as, “Hey, I think we should take this trip to Canada and get some monster pike! Fly-in, fly-out style in a bush plane! Doesn’t that sound awesome?!” Little do they know that my main motivator for doing this trip sooner rather than later is that in a few years, I’ll be retired and money will be a little tighter. So, how do I tell them that?

I suggested to my friends that we plan for 2016. I need to save up for it, because this trip will require some hustling, both financially and getting Mrs. SSC’s mother to visit to help with the kids. I found fishing outfits that had 5 day fishing trips from $800/person up to some ridiculously expensive all-inclusive trips that are way more than I could afford. The big catch here is figuring out what I get for my money. The all-inclusive package is all your meals are cooked for you, all amenities of home, fishing tackle and lures are provided, and a guide every day in your boat. The guide alone accounts for ~$900 of the cost. The $800 trip is more my style though. We get our own outpost cabin that we get flown to, and then the boat is sitting there waiting for us. We have to provide our own tackle, lures, fish finding, cooking, and groceries. While it is more my style, do I want to trek from the Gulf of Mexico to Upper Saskatchewan with enough fishing gear, clothes, and food for a week all the while just hoping the airlines actually keep it all with me? Short answer, No sirree Bob! It would be fun, but not the first time out.

Hopefully I'll catch fish bigger than this!!!
Hopefully I’ll catch fish bigger than this!!!

Plus, it’s still a lot of money, and I’d feel better saving up and spending it now, rather than in a few more years when I will be retired. I’m still not sure how to impress upon them why I want to go on this trip now rather than “in a few years.” I suppose my main urgency in trying to schedule a long-lead-time trip like this is knowing that I may not have the extra cash sitting around in 5 years. However, in my friend’s cases they will have more time and money in a few years… I mean, these guys aren’t planning on retiring for another 20-25 years, so what’s another 3-5 more years? They’ll have earned another week of vacation, and more money from promotions and raises, so they don’t have the same drivers as me. I almost feel deceptive, like I am trying to ‘trick’ them into taking this trip before 2018.

Then, my buddy Ted proposed another trip idea*. His uncle takes groups of guys fishing in the Wind River wilderness, 1 day in, 3-5 days fishing, 1 day out. We’d take horses instead of hiking to be more efficient, and increase the cool factor, and since it’s his uncle the cost is, umm, well, practically free. I guessed at $200-$500/person and Ted replied, “Well, we essentially have to get there and pay for food.” And his uncle doesn’t even fish! That sounded like a slam dunk, but then I’m back in the “I want to do the Canada trip before retiring, which could be as soon as 2018. The Wind River trip would push my dream Canadian fishing adventure back to at least 2017.” Gah!!!

Maybe I’ll tell them we expect money to be tight in a few years, but that sounds even odder, as Mrs SSC works with both of these guys. That alone would raise a red flag that might take some explaining. Maybe I’ll have to “Goonie it up” with a speech like, “Come on guys, this is our time. It’s our time to go fishing now. We may not get this chance again.” While I feel it’s a bit deceptive to not come out with it and tell them, “Look man, we’re planning on quitting the oil industry and moving to Virginia in a few years, and things may be a little tighter with funds. If I don’t do this now, it might be a lot more years before I get the chance to do this again.” In reality, this probably wouldn’t be a big deal, but I’m not comfortable enough with co-workers and even ex-co-workers knowing about and starting to gossip about my 5 year plan. Ultimately, if things don’t go as expected, I’d like to keep working where I am and not have my boss think I have one foot out the door. I’m not sure how I’m going to approach it, but I’ll be sure to let you know how it plays out.

* – Names have been changed to protect the innocent

Have you run into this in any situation with co-workers?

Have you told anyone about your FIRE date, and plans to abandon work?

Anyone have any better ideas for some good Pike and Walleye fishing trips?

Commuting takes its’ “Toll”!

 

Man, commuting together did make a big difference!
Man, commuting together did make a big difference!

When we knew we were going to be moving to Houston, our biggest worry was about the traffic and commute distance. We limited our housing search to within 30 minutes of our office, while still being within a good public school district. Man, did that limit our choices. After finding lots of houses with aluminum wiring, or needing tens of thousands in repairs and upgrades, we started looking at the suburbs… Gah!!! We realized this would cost more in the way of gas, tolls, and time in the car, but ultimately, we were able to spend almost $100k less for our house.**

I mention this because I recently looked at our toll usage on Harris County’s Toll Road Authority page and I noticed it was easy to put a narrative to. When I switched jobs, you can see the  increases associated with trying to figure out a best commuting route, and even the effect of airport trips and other around Houston travel. It was eye opening and amusing.

When I was looking for a job, I needed it to be near downtown since we do not live near the energy corridor. I found a company with a great job opportunity that fit that criteria, and the only downside was that we wouldn’t be able to commute together anymore. Well, there was more than that, but that was the biggie. Mrs. SSC had calculated it would be about $8,000 more per year in commuting cost, post-tax (~$12k/yr pre-tax) if I took a new job. This was assumed wear and tear on the cars using online calculators, and doubling our gas usage, and toll costs, since our commute was still almost the exact same distance just to different places. Also, Mrs SSC would have to pay $70 a month to park, since we wouldn’t get the free carpool parking. Ouch!

You can see in the first months on the graph, we’re at an even $45 +/-. This was commuting together and the occasional use of the toll road on the weekends, but it was fairly consistent. In June, I started my new job and you can see the toll bill almost double, and I didn’t even start until Mid-June.

In July, it actually doubled… Something had to be done, because this was ridiculous. I’m all for efficiency but at what cost? Not this one. I first noticed that by getting on one exit later, the toll went from $1.15 to $0.75, which would save about ~$8/month or $96/year. This is assuming 4 weeks off due to holidays and vacations. Every little bit helps though.

Also, I found that my normal route of egress from the neighborhood had turned from 3-4 minutes to upwards of 8-10 minutes due to heavier traffic. I started taking a back route that got me to the same point consistently 4-5 minutes faster than going “the old way.” Plus, it avoided the toll roads totally. This was in August and you can see a big drop on the graph from ~$88 to $65. So that little measure saved $0.75 each day. Which is ~$15/month or $180/year saved. That’s getting better!

September, Mrs. SSC decided that getting on an exit later in her direction was costing more time than the $0.40 was worth so she began resuming that route, but still getting off an exit early coming home. There was a little increase, nothing big, just the ~$8 of savings previously.

It all looks red or orange, every day....
It all looks red or orange, every day….

October: I have no explanation. None, I can’t remember anything going on in October commute-wise or otherwise that would drive that up. Let’s see…. We did do a mini-surprise anniversary vacation on a cruise, so that entailed tolls down to Galveston and back. That was a bit of it, we did a lot of play-dates, and I think just got really lazy with avoiding the toll road on the weekends, and look how it added up. Almost $25 higher than average. Not counting Galveston, that would be about $20 of tolls related to not avoiding the toll road on the weekend. Maybe the kids were especially cranky when we got to that junction each time in October and the 5 minutes less in the car was worth $1.15. I’m SURE that was it, or something similar. J

As the graph points out, you can see the average levels off to ~$67/month except for months when we are flying places or have training classes in other areas of town that are easier to access with more tolls. Booo…. In general though, the overall tolls came out way better than expected. I’ve looked into getting off at earlier exits, but those Highway Robbers have the 3 closest exits to my neighborhood costing the same amount to get off. So, I skip 6 more stoplights and stay on the toll road doing 70 mph for a few more miles.

Overall, I’m still glad I switched jobs, as I really like my new company, new position, and all the people I work with. Had I drug my feet and waited until this oil price downturn, I might have missed my opportunity to leave altogether. While it did have some financial costs associated with it, I feel they are more than made up for with salary, job satisfaction, and the extra amount we are able to save towards FIRE.

** I know this strategy doesn’t fit with the MMM philosophy of live within walking distance to work, but for us that would be an extra $100k in housing costs, plus ~$12-$15k per year per child for private school when they reached school age. The public schools close to our work were rated horribly, and we didn’t see the payoff for closer living to the office.

Have you had a similar experience before with new costs associated with a new job?

Does anyone else have commuting issues like this that you deal with?

Have you been able to escape this part of the rat-race already and this post makes you even more glad you did so?

 

Lifestyle creep: Is it killing your early retirement?

I have recently come to realize a couple of key things about the SSC household finances. First of all, I realized how out of touch with them I really was… Bad Mr. SSC! Secondly, holy crap are we living way below our means! Way to go SSC family! “Why do I bring this up?” you ask, well… let me tell you. I am personally shocked by how little we live on, given the state of our financial comfort and relatively decent salaries. Yet, I don’t feel slighted, I don’t feel broke, and even more importantly, I don’t feel like I’m wanting for anything. We’ve discussed in other posts, where the money goes, and what our budgets are, and how we got to where we are by diligent saving, and yada, yada, yada. I point to something else as a larger reason that we are in the situation we are today – I think it’s that we have mostly avoided lifestyle creep. That’s year to year creep, like my waistline, slowly expanding until one day I wake up and think, “When did I get fat?!”

I started thinking more about lifestyle inflation the other day after a late night of perusing Facebook. I noticed a friend, let’s call her June,  offering up her used clothes dryer for sale for $150 obo. She also offered the washer with it because it was broken, and since her new washer didn’t match her old dryer, well of course she needed a whole new set. June listed the make, model and all that, so being bored I decided to look it up. It was an $1,100 dryer! That got me thinking, “Man, I bet the washer could be repaired for less than $500 even if it was a motherboard replacement or some other circuitry issue.” Another friend pointed out “the steal” and the fact she was giving up an $1,100 dryer for 10% of the original cost. She pointed out that the new wouldn’t match the old, so please someone come get them.

Then, I thought back a few months ago to June lamenting being “car poor” because she had a plumbing issue come up and needed funds to fix it and repair the damage to her ceiling, dining room, etc… This was after she had just bought a new Camaro convertible and her husband bought a new BMW X5 within the same month. Sure, the SSC family could be doing the same thing, but I realized that we have avoided a lot of that buying for buying’s sake. We caught ourselves doing that early on, and realized we could cut the credit card by 20% each month just by asking, “Do I want it or do I need it?” We found out we don’t need a lot of things we had been buying. Also, by being mindful of our eating out, and switching it to allowances, we were able to cut a lot of spending there. So now, it’s pseudo-date like in that if we eat out, one of us pays from our allowance. Unless it’s sushi, when Mr. SSC always pays, or now we’ve decided going dutch works too, mainly because, “I eat 3x as much as Mrs., SSC.” But to the real point, we’re accountable for eating out and that saves a lot of $$.

Here’s where I am going to go on a sidenote rant though. Mrs. SSC was just telling me about having lunch with some co-workers and how they were talking about all the restaurants they go out to eat at, and have you tried, here, there, etc… These are all people a little older than us, but basically single income providers with stay at home counterparts. Let’s call one of them, Ted. Ted was talking about how he buys breakfast and lunch at work. That has to be about $15-20/day! I know, I’ve also eaten there, never for breakfast, but for lunch, and it’s essentially restaurant prices. So ~$100/week for food at work. That’s almost $5200/yr to eat at work. Ok for me to hear it put like that, it doesn’t sound like much, but that’s because I have no good sense about money. BUT, if you think of it in terms of, if you invest half of that, assuming you bring your lunch, and save $2500/yr those investments can add up to way more than a “tasty” lunch and breakfast each day. Back to the “creep” talk.

Another way we avoided creep was technology creep. I just don’t get keeping up with the Joneses in regards to Apple’s latest iPhone, or Samsung’s latest phone or the newest tablet, or anyone remember the days of GPS? When Apple came out with the first iPhone, so many people I knew, broke or not, were suddenly coming up with $300-$400 for a new iPhone, even though their old phone worked great. They were showing off apps and having loads of fun with it and I thought, “But my phone is fine, and doesn’t eat up a lot of pocket space, and works great for me.” Even with subsequent releases I would hear people lament, “Oh woe is me, I have an iPhone 4 and they just released a 5! I knew I should’ve waited, and now I have to wait 6 months to turn this old 4 in for a brand new 5!” And they had just gotten their iPhone 4. My family (blood related not SSC family) is notorious with getting a phone and using it for maybe 6 months or less, and getting another phone, not realizing the crazy costs associated with constant phone upgrades, but they add up! The “free phone” with a 2 yr contract is ridiculously expensive, when you price out buying it like on T-Mobile’s plans. (this is not an endorsement for T-Mobile. I don’t like them, but they’re lower cost, so it’s a concession I made with Mrs. SSC).

The point of how much we’ve avoided lifestyle creep was driven home to me the other day when I got an update on numbers, retirement dates, retirement income possibilities, etc… from Mrs. SSC. She’s constantly running numbers, adjustments, different forecasts and the like and letting me know where we stand and whether or not 2018 or 2019 is doable for retirement, or if it’s as late as 2020! Gah! She sent me a number and pointed out that in our early retirement, we’re going to essentially be living with an extra ~18% of buffer money than we currently are living now. 18%! I was shocked! Not that we’ll be living more comfortably in early retirement, because it’s pretty comfy now, but just that we’ll have that buffer there and it will be more than we live off of now. Ridiculous… When we get to 60 and our 401k kicks in, it will be an even bigger cushion, restaurants here I come! I’m just astounded that by avoiding throwing away money on things like new cars every 3 yrs, or new phones every year or new tablets every year, we have been able to get to early retirement that much sooner.

And getting back to that lunch Mrs. SSC was having with her colleagues. Besides Ted and his food habits, there was “Mary” who was talking about having a rotating shoe rack in her closet so she could store and view all her shoes. WTF, who does that? Do you do that? Better yet, who needs that? Another one was talking about something else that made Mrs. SSC think, “Are we cheapskates?! Are we living like suckers, “cheaping” it up to retire early?!” Then she realized, by the time we’re their age (~6-8 yrs) we will have been in our retirement home for hopefully 1-2 yrs relaxing fixing it up and spending more time with each other and the kids. So, no, like I’ve said, I don’t feel deprived, or broke, or like I want something and can’t afford it. I am looking forward to being able to house hunt for our retirement place in another 5 yrs, and enjoy sitting on a back porch or deck somewhere soon, just slowly sipping my coffee.

The ‘lightbulb’ emails

Since Mrs. SSC and I have been together she has been in charge of the finances, investing, etc… It just works great for us, and if you read any of my posts, you’ll realize why it works well financially. The interest in this “lightbulb going off” moment has built to a head, so we thought a quick post might make this easier. Here’s my version of how we got to the email chain and spreadsheet listed below. It all began back in Fall of 2009; we had been at our jobs for a year, and open enrollment was upon us at our company and that brought up conversation around HSA elections, and other investment money types of questions. Since everyone knew Mrs. SSC was the human calculator and investment maven for our household, they asked her advice on how best to diversify their 401k portfolio’s, and other investment strategies. She passed around her investment spreadsheet which was an excel spreadsheet that made my eyes glaze over anytime I’d look at it. But, what it did have was years and dates and when we should hit our number for retirement. I knew it was around age 45, and the numbers played out, but her assumptions for cash available to live on seemed scary low, and I wasn’t going to quit a good job with a nice paycheck to eat Ramen and live in a trailer (not that there’s anything wrong with that, if it works for you).  So, except for getting emails from our friends amazed that we were going to retire at 45, I’d roll my eyes and think, “Sure, sure, 45, uh huh…”

Last summer, I started paying attention. There was plenty of back and forth, and when Mrs. SSC was talking about “We only really need ~$60k/yr to be comfortable” I had to put the brakes on this crazy train, and I began to argue debate her assumptions on how much we would really need to live off of.

And this is where the story picks up with the email exchange below….

 

To: Mr. SSC
From: Mrs. SSC
Sent: August 13, 2014 9:05AM

Oh – I’ve accounted for tax, don’t worry – I added in 10% of federal tax, and 7% State tax (for Idaho – they are high!), and then also property tax.  So that is all in the formula. It’s just I wonder if there are ways to avoid paying taxes…

Yeah – I like a 15% cushion.  Some years we may need it, some years not. In my new & improved spreadsheet (still working on, it’s complicated) I’m adding in cash – setting it at 2 years cash (maybe we can have 1 year cash, 1 year CDs, and then our normal emergency fund in cash).    Plus, if we need to tighten up, that 2 years of normal cash would last us at least 3, maybe 4 years in a bad economy – without us getting jobs, and without us taking money out the investments.

So – in the budget I’ve made a few adjustments. Note that cable TV isn’t included, I’m assuming in 5 years you will have found a way to get football streaming. Note also how I’ve added in $500/month on misc. stuff – like house misc. (broom, furniture polish, picture frame, new garden hose, etc), shopping (I guess pharmacy type stuff or just random shit), and kids’ stuff (clothes, school stuff, sports, etc.).  So that is almost $6k/yr. of mostly optional crap built in Plus, I am rounding up to 65k with my calculations anyways.

 

To: Mrs. SSC
From: Mr. SSC
Sent: August 13, 2014 10:14AM

What I’m worried about is saying, “yeah see we can retire even earlier, we just have to tighten the belt even more. Let’s quit now, we can do it, we’d just have to tighten the belt even more, and move it up to our neck, and tie it to something high….” I’m just saying I don’t want to move our budget so far down that we retire, things go south and we’re struggling week  to week. And worried about money. Especially If we live somewhere that we can’t pick up oil jobs, I’m a bit more skeptical of the 2019 date.

Just something to think about to let you know where I’m coming from. Xoxoxo

 

To: Mr. SSC
From: Mrs. SSC
Sent: August 13, 2014 10:41AM

I know.  But don’t worry – we will have a nice big buffer in there by the time it all comes around. All I’m saying is 2019 is possible. Do you see anything missing from the ‘budget’ or what makes you think 65k wouldn’t be enough? (this is just a conversation , not an attack).  The way I see it 65k has a ton of money built into it – 10k of ‘fudge factor’, 2k in rounding –up, maybe 2k in tax deductions, and if things get rough – up to 12k in deferred ‘allowances’. That is $26k of leeway even before cutting-coupons and turning town the AC/heat and duct-taping shoes to make them last…  😉

Here is a comparison… showing all our expenses currently.  The credit card goes down ~$500 because no maid, cheaper cell phone plan, online TV instead of cable, less car expenses (commute/tolls gone).    This is what I mean by we aren’t going to need to change our lifestyle much.  The July 2014 credit card amounts shown are the average of what we’ve spent the last 6 months – and there were some pricey months…   I mean daycare, mortgage and college savings are over $4k themselves that we won’t be paying when we retire early.

THE spreadsheet

Trust me – I’m not trying to fudge numbers to get out of here earlier… I am just trying to understand the actual costs and balance them with being conservative, our comfort level with ‘risk’, and how much time an extra year in the office vs in the mountains hanging out with the kids is worth 😉  I hate cutting coupons!!!! Lol   And honestly – there is no way I am not going to have some part time job.  I might not get it until the kids go to middle school, but I will have one just to stay busy.  Plus, there are ways we can start tapping the 401k early.

 

To: Mrs. SSC
From: Mr. SSC
Sent: August 13, 2014 12:12 PM

Ok, so you’re saying that right now we have ~$8k going out each month, BUT that includes stuff that won’t be there in 5 years or less. So essentially we drop out ~$4.5k each month. SO, make sure I’m doing this right… with those bills dropped out we are at ~$3700/mo in bills. Then you add a 15% buffer to that to get to $51k/yr for our “pseudo-minimum” needs. Then you add in taxes to work back to where that would put us “pre-tax” which is ~$63k. Then you’re rounding up to $65k as another small buffer. Hence the target of $65k/yr. Huh…

What you’re saying in the right column is that if things get really bad, we cut out allowances, and other things to get to $35k BARE minimum need, but those would be some really sucky times. But, targeting 65k/yr, we would only need about half that to cover the “non-bankruptcy option”. That’s assuming neither of us is working, just living off our saved income. So if we got any jobs that would be on top of this, and if they covered any health care, that would be less overall number.

So then, essentially, this doesn’t even factor in 401k’s because that’s “future money” not included here, this is just the “getting to 401k” type budget, not factoring in any sort of part time work, or other income? Holy shit! Seriously, if this is the budget from now until then, and we both plan on working part time or side gigs, why in the hell are we still working?! Oh right, we need to hit our number first…

I can’t believe that’s all we’d need though. I mean it’s all right there, but yeah, I’m just amazed that the number is what it is, with all those buffers built in and not counting any side income or jobs. I just thought it’d have to be higher… Seriously, I figured it’d be higher…

 

I think at this point Mrs. SSC read this and smacked her palm to her forehead while rolling her eyes. On the plus side, she was probably happy I finally got it and was on board.

It seems like this is common amongst FIRE couples, with someone pushing the issue and the other person is in my position until they have their own “lightbulb” moment.

Do these types of conversations seem familiar with your better half? Please let me know we aren’t the only ones out there that went through this…

 

Death of a Cellphone

Monday 10/13:

Well, that day has arrived. The one where I go to use my phone and realize, “Hey it shouldn’t be acting like this. I’ll charge it, and maybe it will feel better… Why isn’t it recognizing the charger is plugged in?” So I unplug and re-plug the charger, still nothing. Check the charger port on the phone for lint, no lint. I think to myself, “Hmmm, it shouldn’t be acting like this, I bet the battery is shot, I mean it is 2+ years old. I’ll deal with it when I get home.”   I get home and the battery is really, really, low. So, I pull out the battery and go to Amazon to find a replacement. A few minutes and $10 later and my new OEM battery will be arriving in 2 days. Yeah!! In the meantime, I tell Mrs. SSC my cell phone is sick, and I plug the battery back in and try to turn on the phone and it’s stuck in a reboot loop… My heart jumps to my throat as I think, “Maybe it wasn’t the battery! EEEEP!!!” I try soft rebooting, hard rebooting, and nothing. I think optimistically, “Well…. maybe the battery is soooo low, it is stuck in this loop and can’t power on past this reboot point. I’m glad I ordered a new battery!”

 

Thursday, 10/16:

My new battery arrives and I think to myself, “Hooray, I get my phone back!”. While it has been kind of freeing to be without my personal cell phone, I’m now more worried that the phone may have caught something terminal and it isn’t just sick or in need of an organ replacement (the battery). I put in the new battery, power on, and now it gets to a new point in the reboot loop before it sets off the flash and the screen blinks off. It then begins to repeat this behavior. After several attempts at this with the same result, I take out the battery, and try charging it, thinking the new battery needs a solid charge on it, and that’s definitely the issue. At this point, I am the definition of insanity, trying the same things over and over and hoping for a different outcome. I search online and find some useful information regarding my specific issue. I found out that there’s only a 50/50 survival rate and the chances at resuscitating my dear little phone are looking more and more grim. So, I go back to Amazon and $6 later, I have a “USB jig” on its way to the SSC residence. Allegedly, you plug this in and turn on the phone and it forces it to go to a download mode, where you can monkey with things to get it to reset that reboot loop. I update Mrs. SSC on the news and she suggests that we should look into cell phone plans if I’m going to need a new phone. Begrudgingly, I start to research online, but out of sight of my sick phone. It’s not dead yet, just very, very, sick, and I don’t want to do anything to impede its recovery back to a working cell phone. I give it some words of encouragement before I start my research, “Hold on buddy, I’ve got the “jig” coming; that will fix you I promise! We’ll get through this!”

 

Saturday, 10/18:

The USB Jig arrives and the moment of truth is here. I put the battery back in my phone, insert the USB jig, yell “Clear!” and press the power button. Disappointingly, nothing happened. Except the reboot loop, and it wouldn’t even get past the Samsung logo. Poor phone, it’s sicker than I thought. I held out one last hope though that if I took it to the phone hospital (our carrier’s store) they may let me use a fully charged battery and give me an accurate diagnosis.

 

Monday, 10/20:

I took my phone into the local store, praying for a miracle. After trying to resuscitate it, we called the time of death at 10:16 am, Monday 10/20/14. Good-bye phone. You’ve served me well, and I hate to see you go. So, on to a new phone, but do we need a new plan at the same time? Should we stick with our current carrier, or try something different, something more frugal?

I remember a few months back reading about different cell phone plans on the cheap and with my love for “ghetto cell plans and the phones that come with them” I bypass them to go straight to our current carrier’s online store and start looking at new phones. J Holy cow, when the hell did cell phones start to cost as much as a decent lap-top?! I realize I paid a couple of hundred dollars for my last cell phone (the Galaxy S2), but I didn’t get the S3 because it was almost double the price. Yes, I’m cheap in some regards, but the S2 was great and worked awesomely, until it didn’t. But to upgrade to an S5 was $609 at our current carrier, and $509 on Amazon. I look at the Nexus and i-phones which were similarly priced. Whichever phone I researched,  they seemed to be way more than I want to spend on a phone.

So I researched different carriers thinking I could save some coin on our plan as well as a phone. I looked into a lot of them, but, I only dug deeper into Ting and Republic Wireless. Why those you ask? Well, Mrs. SSC was in love with the idea of Republic’s $5/month plan in which you only use wifi, and have no cellular tower connection. Sounds promising, but after reading some reviews, I realized this wouldn’t fit our current lifestyle. Their other plans range from $10/mo to $40/mo and as you pay more, you get moved onto cellular networks, but our current plan has us at $80/mo for both phones. So, I’m not going to a different carrier and incur a new phone cost for Mrs. SSC when her phone is still working fine, and not save money. It didn’t make sense for us to switch.

Then, I checked on Ting and their plans. I like the concept of their plan which is “you pay for what you use”. They put everything into different buckets marked SX, S, M, L, and XL and More. Looking into our current monthly usage, we would land in the $32/month category. Again only saving $16/month, which, yes, is almost $200/year, but with the hassle of switching carriers, getting phones for their systems, etc… It isn’t worth it to us currently. With our current lifestyle, we need something reliable that works everywhere and comes at a time when both our phones break or need an upgrade. So we’re sticking with our current carrier for now.

 

Wednesday, 10/22:

That brings us back to what to do about replacing my phone. As Mrs. SSC pointed out I can get a Galaxy Avant for $200 and that’s reasonable. She put down the edict that in her world, over $300 for a cell phone is unreasonable, and I would have to cover the difference out of my allowance. Ugh… I pointed out that the Avant is a downgrade on all levels from a phone that was 2+ years old. So, no, once I’ve tasted the good stuff, I can’t go back!! But seriously, who wants to spend a LOT of money on a brand new phone that’s already slower and takes worse pictures than your old phone? I settled on the Galaxy S4, it was $330 on Amazon and should be arriving today. Swap out my sim card, and I’ll be back in business. I’m sure at some point, I will downgrade my phone to some degree, and our plan will change to a cheaper one. In the meantime, I’ll have a small memorial for my old phone. Say some kind words, share a favorite memory I had of it, and then drop it into the electronic recycling bucket at work.

How do you deal with replacing cell phones? Do you just go with something that fits your needs and you don’t need the bells and whistles, or do you like getting the newest, latest, greatest phone out there? I compromise somewhere in the middle. Maybe the upper end of the middle, but I’m okay with that for now.

WTF: I need HOW much to retire?

  • Do you need 70% of your income just to live off of? According to  most financial advisors,  “you should retire with 70% of your pre-retirement income to maintain your lifestyle when you retire.” Some advisors even recommend 80-85% of your current income! What kind of lifestyle are they referring to? For instance, Mrs. SSC and I currently live off of ~50% of our income, and use the other 50% for investing, saving, putting towards reaching Financial Independence Early Retirement (FIRE). However, one key factor that most of these financial advisors and even yourself may not take into account (because I know I never did) was what bills are you paying now that you won’t be paying in 5 years, 10, years, etc… For instance, we have daycare, full time for 2 kids that runs about $2,000/month, which is ~$24,000/yr. That’s a LOT of money! But, we’re not going to have that bill forever. We’re going to get to leave that bill behind and suddenly be $24,000/year “richer” in about 4 more years when the kids go to school. If we take that into account, we immediately need less than before to maintain our current lifestyle in retirement.

Another assumption is that we will stop putting money into the kids college funds. We’re saving fairly aggressively right now, but we feel that we will have enough saved for them to go to a state school, assuming there are no scholarships, grants, or other means to help out with college tuition. If they want to pursue graduate school, I would support it, but I feel that no one should pay for a graduate school degree. I got a full ride for graduate school, as did my wife, and I can assure you my grades were not stellar, but I was able to work hard and get accepted into the program I wanted. The point is most graduate programs that are worth pursuing offer research assistantships, Teaching assistant positions, and more as well as cover tuition. Getting back to finances though, this is another cost we’re paying out each month that will immediately save us on money that we won’t need each year in retirement. For us, another one is mortgage. We plan on saving enough to cover our house when we retire and move so that we won’t have a monthly mortgage. This is another HUGE cost savings (not as much as daycare), but still, this again cuts our monthly bills for retirement.

Mrs. SSC did a post explaining our current needs/monthly bill assumptions with her spreadsheet. I looked at this spreadsheet off and on for years before it sunk in that, we really can do this, and keep our current lifestyle. We will be doing it living off of ~20% of our current income, pre-retirement levels. Yep, about 20%. Your number will most certainly be different, maybe it’s 40%, maybe you can pull off 15%, but the point is you’ve looked into and found a number you would need for your lifestyle and your current income and you didn’t take the blanket statement that you’ll need 70-85% of your income. More to the point, you aren’t listening to all those yahoos that keep saying, WHAT?! You can’t retire before 60! How are you going to live?! You can’t access your 401k until you’re 60, what will you do for money?!” Yeah, let those guys keep working that long, and in the meantime, figure your number out and start working towards it and living life on your terms, not the naysayers.

The more I have looked at our numbers since my initial realization that we really can do this, the more I’ve come to realize a few things.

1. When we hit 60 and can access our 401k’s we’re set! Meaning that the money that has been growing in those accounts will allow us more income/year than we have been living off of the last 7 years, and most likely the next 30 years. Besides being able to already live within those means, we will be back to having even more extra money to spend. We can use it to go see the kids, grandkids, if we want to travel more, or who knows what we may be in the mood for then.

2. We live pretty comfortably off of way less than we bring home. When we got out of the habit of just purchasing things because we “wanted” it and didn’t need it, it saved a lot of money that we were able to put towards retirement. Tracking our spending helped with that a LOT. If you’re not tracking your spending in some form, you should start. NOW. It’s amazing.

3. I’m no less happy now than I was when I was spending willy-nilly like I had all the money in the world. It’s like buyers remorse. Sure, you feel good about that Amazon purchase, and sure you really did want that thing, but then it gets to the house and a few months later you realize you don’t even use it… Ugh, the money I’ve wasted on late night comfort buying.

4. Having a goal of FIRE and working towards it makes me even more conscious about how I spend money, and areas where I can save money. I used my allowance to surprise Mrs. SSC with a short cruise to celebrate our anniversary recently. It was a good deal, we can drive there, and it was only a 4 day cruise, so it was more about getting to spend time with her and relax, while the grandparents watched the kids. While standing in line to embark on the cruise, we were both struck by the thought of “how much money people waste on useless things.” The amount of people with matching bedazzled shirts, boas, tiaras, etc… for their cruise groups, or better yet, matching monogrammed luggage (it was only a 4 day cruise…), and even the families with matching shirts and slogans like “Miller’s “Boat-tober 2014”. Anyway, we both commented on it to each other at about the same time, mainly due to the lavishness of a group or two near us in line.

How much of your pay do you actually use to live off of? If you’re not tracking it, you should start, and you will probably be surprised by a few things. First, is how much money you probably waste on little things without even knowing it. We realized we were spending about $300-$400/month at Target for nothing. Just random,  “oh we could use this, Oh that’s cute, put it in the cart” type of spending. That could be close to $5,000/year we could have been saving. Now we go to Target once a month, and have a list of what we need when we get there. The second is probably how little of your income you actually need to live off of. Granted everyone’s situation is different, and many people probably have car loans, credit card bills every month, cable, cell phone, and other bills and other things that they think that they really need. Or if you are like me and are just finding out about FIRE, then you read some of these people’s blogs and think, “No way in hell am I going to get some ghetto cell plan, get rid of cable, bike everywhere, ALL the time, and cut out all kinds of other comforts, just so I don’t have to work. I don’t hate my job that much, heck I even LIKE my job, why would I want to quit and eat Ramen and crackers? No thanks!”

That’s how it started with me. I realized early on, there were a few different camps that FIRE people seemed to fall into. One that turned me off from FIRE was the “I’ll do anything to not work” camp, and that could include moving into an RV, eschewing all comforts of life for the cheaper version of everything, and ultimately being very cheap, not frugal, cheap…  Not that there is anything wrong with that, if that lifestyle works for you. I didn’t like living on $25,000/yr when I was single and in college (actually, I’m pretty sure it was less than that), but certainly not now when I have 2 kids, a wife, and I realize I like the comforts that my career choice, and current lifestyle offer. Especially, growing up poor and knowing how it feels to not be able to do school activities due to no money being available, or even scrounging for money for lunch each day, or constantly worrying about money as a child because my parents were horrible at managing finances well and we were the poster child of living “paycheck to paycheck” with no real savings, emergency fund, any of that security. I don’t want my kids to experience that, and I choose to not go to extremes just to retire early.

So what did we compromise on to be able to achieve early retirement? Not a lot really. I mean, we didn’t spend all of our income to show the world that we could afford to drive fancy cars, and live in fancy houses, and wear $200 sunglasses, and expensive clothes. We’ve put that towards retirement instead. We don’t buy the newest phone or tech gadget just because there is a new one. I’ve had my same smart phone for over 2 years now, and it still does everything I need to even though it’s only a Galaxy S2 (EEEP! S2, but they’re up to S5 now!). We eat well, but make most of our food at home, and if we go out to eat it comes from one of our allowances. We realized we saved ourselves a lot of money just by switching eating out to coming from one of us personally. Also, clothes come from a personal allowance, so you can get as nice or shabby clothes as you choose to buy without affecting the family finances. Ultimately, we may have times where we spend money on “needless” things, but we are consciously doing it and make the choice that it is worth it, like the cruise. No one needs to take a cruise, ever. They can be a huge money trap depending on what you do onboard, but we enjoyed the quiet time reading and relaxing on our balcony, and getting to relax for a few days without the kids. It was forced relaxation, because where else are you going to go?

Ultimately, we didn’t read the news articles and finance articles saying “you need 70% or more of what you make today to retire comfortably!” and then think to ourselves, “Well, we’re never going to get to retire.” You shouldn’t do that either! We analyzed our spending, bills, etc.. and found the number we needed and are now working towards it. Within 5 years, we will be able to take the kids to school, come home and have some coffee on the back porch before we get to what it is we’re doing for the day.

What’s your number, and how close are you to getting there? Are there things you’ve done to be able to get there sooner than most of America? Let me know!

Should funerals count as emergencies?

Recently, the SSC household has been dealing with loss. Mrs. SSC’s grandmother, after whom our baby girl was named, peacefully succumbed to age. As the final weeks of her life drew near the urgency with which to make plans, get plane tickets, hotel reservations, car rental all grew and grew. It was a very stressful time for everyone involved, particularly Mrs. SSC and her father who are over-planners. As we waited to see if Mrs. SSC’s grandmother would pull out of it and get better, we watched prices go up, down, up, and up some more. Eventually, she did pass away in her sleep, and we made preparations to travel across the country to pay our respects.  Luckily, we are currently in a financial position that money was not an object in planning travel.  I mean, don’t get me wrong – the airlines robbed us, but we are fortunate enough to be still be able to pay bills, and not have to ponder whether or not we should travel.

All of these preparations got me to thinking about when I lost my dad and my grandparents, years ago.  I wasn’t in nearly as comfortable of a place financially and it would almost break me every time I would need to travel for funerals. Besides the added costs of last-minute trips, I was also losing time at work. With hourly jobs, sure you may be able to take the time off, but now you’re paying a lot for traveling to say goodbye, and you’re going to get a shorter paycheck in the subsequent weeks. Back then, I wasn’t ever disciplined enough to have a “real” emergency fund, so I couldn’t dip into that when needed. I would scramble around trying to rummage up enough money for the trip home, inevitably putting the costs on my credit card, where they would sit for months and years accruing interest.

When my father passed away, I was in a little better spot, but it was still almost $800 for a plane ticket, ~$250 for a hotel, and ~$200 for a rental car. Yes, I could have stayed with family, but my family tends to stress me out with their bickering, in-fighting, and excessive drinking. It was well worth it to have a place to go that was stress free.  The costs were  a little higher when my grandfather passed a few years back, requiring travel near the always-expensive Thanksgiving holiday, but even staying with family then, it was still close to $1100. Mrs. SSC’s trip last weekend cost about ~$1200, even splitting the rental car with her parents.  Having that ~$1000-$1500 available for such last-minute travel is not a luxury that many people have, but it’s a cost that many of us have to bear, unfortunately too many times in our lives. When my Aunt passed away this last spring, it was again around $1000 for a single lane ticket, rental car, and hotel. We almost donated the money to cancer research instead, but I felt I needed to go, so I went.

I never thought about planning for “funeral money” in the emergency fund until this past week. Even in our household, budgets and monthly savings are going to be adjusted to help offset this recent unexpected expense. None of us expect someone to pass away, and even when they are very old or in very poor health, we never plan on the expenses for their funeral until the week prior to their passing, if you’re fortunate enough to get that kind of warning time. Even then, who can pull $1200 out of the air to accommodate those extra costs. Like us and most people, it will go on a credit card to be dealt with later, when the pain and grieving isn’t so bad. Now I am realizing that having that emergency fund to help offset the funeral costs is a big help. If you’re like me, I thought of emergency fund in terms of “emergency problems”, and if you’re like me, it was not nearly robust enough to cover 6 months of expense, let alone 2 months of expense. Really, who keeps emergency funds that really can cover 6 months or more of expenses? I know I wasn’t disciplined enough to do that, and I always blamed that I didn’t have enough extra cash to set that much aside, much less enough to cover more than the occasional car repair, school books each semester, etc… I didn’t plan on needing an extra $1000 in there to cover funeral related travel expenses. Unfortunately though, I found that if you want to have a true emergency fund, making sure it can handle that sort of unexpected hit is something you may want to consider.

Much like wills, this is an awkward topic, and one most people avoid because it makes them feel uncomfortable or sad, because they are reminded of past funerals they have attended and loved ones who aren’t here anymore. The last thing any of our loved ones would want is for us to get put out by coming to their funeral. Yet, invariably, we all are put out by it in many ways. Emotionally, financially, and even with schedules being changed to accommodate a last-minute “trip” back home, or wherever they live. It’s just a thought I had, that a specific emergency fund for funerals might not be a bad idea. (although Mrs. SSC says she would rather invest that money then sit on even more cash). For me personally, I wouldn’t have been able to replace my emergency fund quickly enough during grad school had I used it towards funeral travel expenses, as I lost 2 grandparents and my father within 18 months of each other, but hopefully, that’s probably not typical for most people.

My point is after having two funerals come up this year, and each one costing around $1000 +/- it seemed a topic that may be worth addressing. While it may seem morbidly specific to have an emergency fund set aside for funeral travel, or even those funds accounted for in your present emergency fund, if you get hit with the double whammy of a car breakdown time adjacent to a funeral, what was already stretched thin may just break. Maybe you are way more financially diligent than me and already have a well stocked emergency fund that can absorb the hit of a car repair, and impromptu travel, but if not, it’s something to consider. By accounting for that travel and related expenses in your emergency fund now, it can be one less thing to worry about when you are already dealing with loss and sadness.

Bad Decisions 4: Budgets are a four letter word

IMG_9803When I was growing up I saw my family go through cycles of budgeting vs not budgeting. My dad saw budgets the way most people see diets, a means to an end, but nothing that is sustainable or pleasant. Essentially, mom would implement a budget, it might get stuck to for a few weeks, maybe even a few months, but inevitably dad would feel too shackled by the constraints of the budget and go back to spending as if he was made of money, which he wasn’t. I never saw budgets as something useful, but rather viewed them as negative and something that meant you weren’t doing it right and needed to be told how to spend your money. I kept that view for way too many years, and didn’t realize how helpful budgets and tracking finances could be.

Clearly, I was wrong about budgets and now I realize that the only thing a budget does is let you see where your money goes, and it helps you divvy it up so that the important things get covered before you spend on excess things like gym, boats, dinner out, etc… You can make your budget as strict or loose as you need. I viewed budgets as a fascist rule over my finances with strict lines I couldn’t cross, or I’d face consequences! Consequences! Therefore, I avoided implementing budgets in the real sense of the word, because who chooses to get ruled by anything? Let’s be honest, I still hate budgets. The word itself brings up negative memories associated with being broke as hell as a little kid, arguments associated with money issues, and the feeling I’m getting punished for something I did wrong financially. It’s no wonder I never had a budget or tried to stick to one.

I’m just fortunate I married someone financially minded, that is way better at money, finance management, saving, and has a hell of a lot more financial discipline than me. Even she implements budgets or tries to. Seriously, whenever Mrs. SSC mentions the word, I recoil and get edgy and defensive. It’s amazing what gets imprinted during our upbringing. Back to budgets. If you’re reading this you have some interest in finance management so let’s get to where I went wrong with mine. Straight out, I’ll tell you I still don’t have one. Never could get one implemented, stick to it, or even had the desire. I had the desire to get out of my situation, but it’s like dieting; I didn’t want to be fat, but I didn’t want to work to be skinny either.

Sooo – here’s was my  “budget strategy” from back in the bachelor days. Money in = ~$800 and money out = $737.50. Clearly this wasn’t sustainable, because I only had ~$30/week to “have fun with”. What a crock! And note there isn’t anything going to savings at all either. And honestly, the check would just get deposited and this was all “deducted” theoretically, not actually set aside in different accounts. Even when it jumped up a few hundred more a check after undergrad, it didn’t matter because my spending habits were to spend more than I made. Plus, I had more than that going out in student loan payments… Gah!

However, even this could have worked with a little mindful spending, but therein lies the flaw in my whole system – tracking spending! How did I track it you ask? I kept a running total in my head, money in vs what was in my account. Yeah, it worked great, that’s why I’m writing about it in the “bad decisions” posts. Remember, I’m not super great with numbers, plus, I have to remember everything and keep a ledger in my head and make sure what was spent was deducted and added up correctly. I have a pseudo-photographic memory so actually, this worked better than you’d think. The main flaw was when I would have “extra money”. My $ in and $ out would be totaled, and even if I accounted for auto-draft bills that were coming due, I’d think, “Yeah good job Mr. SSC, you’ve trimmed costs and done well, and you have some extra coin to spend!! We’re going out!” Inevitably, within a week or so, a bill would hit, something I forgot about and I’d be in the hole.

So, yeah, I never actually sat down and figured out money in/money out and saw the stark reality that I was broke! Always… Constantly… And there should NEVER be extra money, ever. Had I actually just sat down and figured out what bills I had, and then put my pay next to it, and could see how close they were, and maybe I could’ve saved myself a lot of trouble. BUT I never did this. I just “knew” what my rent was, my cell bill, car insurance every 3 months, credit cards were always something, utilities varied depending on season, and gas and groceries were background noise.

This didn’t ever really change until I met Mrs. SSC and saw you could live differently. It still hasn’t changed really, Mrs. SSC just holds me to an allowance that’s brilliant and evil! I’m forced to decide if I want or need something. That’s changed my spending habits more than anything. Being forced to be accountable might suck, but has ultimately been great.

Another positive is that I have seen the positive effects of budgeting and finance tracking. Essentially, without Mrs. SSC, I’d still be in the same boat even with my salary being pretty comfortable. I would have just spent it on a boat, a truck to pull the boat, a sweet semi-restored classic muscle car (dude, I sound pretty country when it comes out like that). Anyway, the point is, I’d just blow it on more expensive crap and not be able to retire in 4 years like we’re planning on. I totally understand how most people are in debt to their eyeballs or making 6 figures and broke as hell. It doesn’t matter whether you make $40k a yr or $140k a yr, if you don’t know how to live within your means, you’ll overspend regardless of your income. Just look at how many pro athletes making millions go bankrupt, actors too, musicians… Bad spending habits just mean you blow more money per purchase not that you have enough money to cover your dumb decisions. I just suck at managing finance. I try really hard, but ultimately I’d fail at managing it well, because I haven’t gotten there yet.

BUT, seeing the spreadsheet and last 6 yrs of finance tracking and our budget, I see the benefit of it. Because of Mrs. SSC doing that and her amazing skills, we can retire in 4-6 yrs. living the same lifestyle we do now. Because of budgets and finance tracking, we even have savings to bridge the gap between now and 60 when we can access our 401k. Our budget includes savings, investments, college for kids, and all those other things most people see as secondary. But shifting them into your budget forces you to save and account for that. Like pre-tax 401k contributions, suck it up and do it if you’re not already. I did it even when I was making $35k/yr. You’ll never notice it, except for when you get older and think to yourself, “Thank goodness I saved that money, I can retire now.”

Or, you can cash it out at some point like I did. I would never recommend cashing out your 401k. Read why I did, and what I did with it, from what I can remember, because yeah,it was that great I don’t even know where it all went except general frittering away….Let me know if and how you track your finances, and stay tuned to the next ” Bad decisions” post: Cashing out my 401k!

 

 

Mrs. SSC:  One tip I have for budgeting, is that I treat our savings as a bill. I set it up to get automatically invested every month, so I have to make sure our budget stays on track. If we need to cut corners on something make ends meet, we are forced to try and trim the grocery bill or other superfluous spending, and not our savings.